i need to remember this phrase.
i guess this qoute soothes out the uncomfortable emotions that i have and explains for his reactions yesterday. i shouldnt have reacted in that manner? if i let him hold me, maybe we wouldn't have stomped away from each other? if i didnt expect anything from him, i wouldn't be disappointed. biggest problem with me: i like creating expectations out of my partner in a relationship. and when things do not work out the way i do, i know i kick up a big fuss. but give me a day or two to think about what i have done, i always realise that things should not have been like this. it doesnt mean that if he doesnt love me the way i want him to, he isn't giving his all.
now i know why he was so peeved. because i gave undermined the value of love he has for me. sorry.
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miaoqin here. i know what you mean. i feel the same way frequently in my relationship too ): i think it's normal to form expectations of the other party. inevitably, he too forms expectations of how he'd want you to react to him. it's a circular argument. and i'm sure a 5 year relationship is much stronger than that. hope you feel better already. -hugs-
(: thank you girl. Hugs!
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